Saturday, November 8, 2008

Lucky to be alive...

On Thursday evenings my husband Brian plays in a basketball league on the Westside of G.R. Whenever possible we like to take the kids to watch, well this past week we were lucky enough to be able to do just that. the game was great and they played awesome. We were all ready to go home and tuck the kids in bed and be adults for a little while.

Well little did we know that our luck was about to change. Brian's car was in for a set of new tires and on our way home we stopped and dropped him off at his car. We followed each other down West River and came to the light at Northland and West River.

I was in the far left lane with both of the kids and Brian was in the right lane, both of us waited for the light to turn green so we could take a left up the hill. So the light changes and I go, little did I realize a guy come from the other direction decided he didn't need to stop for the red. And we hit him as he travel 65-70 mph. I happened so fast. The kids were screaming(a good sign), I was still trying to get my wits about me and I look down and the air bag had gone off and the car was filling with dust. I had to get them out.

The side doors wouldn't open so I had to hand my children out through the passenger door, and pass them on to perfect strangers just to get them to safety. The van I am sure is a total loss. I have never been so scared in my life and yet I couldn't cry because my kids were so upset I was set on making them feel safe.

I was lucky to be alive to have them and that my husband, by chance was one car over. He saw it all and I can only imagine what that was like to watch your family!

We are all alive, sore,black and blue, but the guardian angels were on our side!

I realize later that I take life for granted everyday, I cruise through my day, sometimes not even remembering small things. I hate to say it, but God wanted me to slow down, and I get it now. Please take our accident as a sign to slow down in your own lives, look at the small stuff and kiss your children every second you can...I know all to well how fast that can be taken away!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Ok no more yelling!!!

Since Kate scolded me the other night about not keeping this updated, I am updating!!! I lost my password and I am horrible with passwords, but Know I can update and Kate can back off!!! Just kidding I still love you!

Introducing Mr and Mrs Spencer Deenen













They did it!! On October 25,2008, mys little sister and Spencer tied the knot!! Their wedding was wonderful and the both look so happy. The weather could have been better, but it is all said and done. Congrats to the both of you!


Happy Birthday Brando!
















What happened? How do the go from so little, well almost little considering Brandon Started out in this world at 10lbs 7oz, but no the less little and then you blink and he is 3! The big preschooler who loves his little sister and wants to do everything on his own!
We had a low key birthday this year, just a cake made by mom (me), a pumpkin patch visit with Papa and Grandma and then a pizza party with his cousin and Aunts and Uncles. Perfect for the little boy who loves his family more than anything!
Happy 3rd birthday big guy!